Resources
I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.
- Carl Jung
Attachment and Couples Work
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work — John M. Gottman & Nan Silver
Wired for Love — Stan Tatkin
Hold Me Tight — Sue Johnson
Come As You Are — Emily Nagoski
Come Together - Emily Nagoski
Mating in Captivity - Esther Perel
Attached — Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents — Lindsay C. Gibson
It Didn't Start With You — Mark Wolynn
Books
BIPOC-Centred Healing & Decolonial Frameworks
Decolonizing Therapy: Oppression, Historical Trauma, and Politicizing Your Practice — Jennifer Mullan, PsyD
My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies — Resmaa Menakem, MSW, LICSW
Break the Cycle: A Guide to Healing Intergenerational Trauma — Dr. Mariel Buqué, PhD
Trauma-Informed Psychotherapy for BIPOC Communities: Decolonizing Mental Health — Dr. Pavna K. Sodhi
Rooted in Different Soils, Growing Together - A Couples Therapy Workbook, for Intercultural Couples — Diane Hua-Stewart
Workbooks - Individuals & Couples
Set Boundaries, Find Peace — Nedra Glover Tawwab
Mind Over Mood — Dennis Greenberger and Christine A. Padesky
The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook — Matthew McKay, Jeffrey C. Wood, and Jeffrey Brantley
The Complex PTSD Workbook: A Mind-Body Approach to Regaining Emotional Control and Becoming Whole - Arielle Schwartz and Jim Knipe
The Attachment Theory Workbook: Powerful Tools to Promote Understanding, Increase Stability, and Build Lasting Relationships - Annie Chen
Rooted in Different Soils, Growing Together - A Couples Therapy Workbook, for Intercultural Couples — Diane Hua-Stewart
Understanding Trauma and the Nervous System
This video provides a basic introduction and overview of how trauma and chronic stress affects our nervous system and how those effects impact our health and well-being.
Videos
How Adverse Childhood Experiences Affects Us Across the Lifespan (ACE's)
Childhood trauma has lasting impacts on brain development due to ongoing stress from abuse, neglect, and parental issues, says pediatrician Nadine Burke Harris.
Dr. Daniel Siegal describes his Hand Model of the Brain
Dr. Siegal describes how the brain stem and limbic system can override our prefrontal cortex, causing us to “flip our lid”. Learning the importance of naming it to tame it, when our part of our brain goes offline.

